89.A three-year-old might need help in understanding that other children feel pain just as he does, and that hitting a playmate over the head with a heavy toy requires an apology.

　　主干：A three-year-old might need help

　　解析：in understanding... 是介詞短語(yǔ)作狀語(yǔ)，表示在明白...方面。understanding后面有兩個(gè)that 引導(dǎo)的賓語(yǔ)從句。前一個(gè)從句中，as he does 引導(dǎo)的是比較狀語(yǔ)從句，修飾feel pain。后一個(gè)從句中，hitting...是動(dòng)名詞作主語(yǔ)，謂語(yǔ)動(dòng)詞requires用單數(shù)形式。