Since I went to middle school, I had told myself that I was not a little kid anymore. I needed to grow up. So the first thing is not to ask my parents for help at the first time. I should take some time to think about the difficulty and then figure out the solution. If I ask my parents immediately, I will never be mature, as I always want to depend on them. But if I can’t solve the problem, I will turn to my friends for help. They can give me some advice and I will make my own judgement. At last, the suggestion from my parents won’t be ignored. It is the most useful.

自從我上了中學，我就告訴自己，我不再是一個小孩了。我需要成長。因此第一件事情就是不要第一時間向我的父母尋求幫助，我應該花一些時間思考困難所在，然后找出解決方案。如果我立刻向父母尋求幫助，我永遠都不會長大，因為我總是想著依賴他們。但是如果我無法解決問題，我就會向我的朋友尋求幫助，他們可以給我建議，之后我會做出自己的判斷。最后，來自父母的建議也不容忽視，因為那是最重要的。